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Monday, January 5, 2015

The Sum Total of Choices

I plan to post here on Lifelines every Monday. I hope you find this blog inspiring and entertaining, perhaps finding a nugget of wisdom to help you in days to come. In the right sidebar you can sign up to follow the blog and never miss when a new post goes up. Also in the right sidebar you can join my mailing list and receive my newsletter, which has a book giveaway in each issue.

"My mistakes are my life." –Samuel Beckett (1906-1989)

In the movie, "The Renaissance Man," Danny De Vito’s character makes an insightful statement: "The choices we make dictate the lives we lead." To paraphrase, this means "Where you are today is the result of all the choices and mistakes you have made in your life."

And many of those choices were bad ones—mistakes. So, yes, the sum total of our choices—good and bad—make us who we are today.

I’ve often heard that experience is the best teacher. When we experience the consequences of a bad choice, we do learn a lesson that serves us well in the remainder of our lives. The aftermath of a bad choice is usually not easily forgotten, if ever.

Oh, if we could have that 20-20 hindsight vision when we make our choices. We’ll have more than ample opportunity to make choices in the New Year ahead. But we can’t see beyond our choices until after we make them. Then, if they prove to be bad choices, it’s too late to change. But we can learn from our mistakes. If we don’t remember and learn from our mistakes, we’ll be doomed to repeat them.

I often describe myself as hopeful, enthusiastic, and positive. If I daily marinate my attitude with those three attributes instead of their opposites, I believe I can approach my challenges and choices in a way that results in favorable outcomes.

I hope you’re prepared to meet your challenges and choices with a good attitude. Add a bit of wisdom based on the past and you’ll help yourself to reap a good 2015.


  1. Thank you for sharing. I look forward to reading to these Monday Readings. I seem to always make But at least I am trying new things in life. Some of the things turn out good. Some not so good. I agree that a lot is in our attitude. God Bless you in this New Year

    1. Linda, you're welcome. Yes, attitude is important. Thanks for reading the blog post and for leaving your comment.

  2. I just purchased the e book "Amen and Good Morning God" Thank You for such wonderful work. May I ask you to please add. My name to your prayers? I have a burden on my heart that only God can take care of. Thank you God Bless

    1. Linda, I'm glad you like "Amen and Good morning God." I'm honored to add your name to my prayers. God promises he will help us with our burdens if we will ask him. I pray God will bless you.