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Monday, May 29, 2017

Pressure or Influence?


Only I can change my life.
No one can do it for me.”
--Carol Burnett

When you hear the words “peer pressure,” where do your thoughts go? Do you immediately picture young people? Do older persons ever come to mind? Peer pressure is not limited to young people, nor does it necessary have to be bad.

But, why do the words “peer pressure” usually produce bad images? Maybe it would be just as fair to consider good feelings when we use those words. You know, every glass that is half empty is at the same time half full. There are two sides almost everything.

Rather than using peer pressure, better terminology might be peer influence. From the age we’re first able to reason, our peers can and probably will exert influence on our decision-making processes.


Once upon a time, at a state fair, my friends lined up
for tickets to ride the Tilt-A-Whirl. Not to be called “Fraidy Cat,” I climbed into the middle of a three-seater bucket. The attendant slammed a crossbar down in front of us and fastened the safety catch.

Once underway, no amount of begging or screaming could get me off the ride. No sooner had I recovered from one swinging circle to the left, so that I could hold my neck and head upright, than away we would spin in the opposite direction!

My reaction to peer pressure got me on the Tilt-A-Whirl where I learned a quick and everlasting lesson. On a long trip I’ll gladly drive 50 miles out of the way to stay on straight roads with no spinning and curving.

By our reaction to them, we determine how strong peer influences can be on us. We control, too, which peer influences we allow into our lives—good ones or bad ones.

Here’s hoping we’ll sift all peer pressures through a filter of good judgment so the lessons we learn will be beneficial.

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